1) List
of articles as they appear on blog .
SORRY- website does NOT list titles with links to each article, so you
must scroll down through each entry.
They are not numbered on the site. 20 total
incl. list,
2) My comments
(& NYT article below) noting Brooklyn Dist. Atty Hynes & police
corruption; ?? justice across
3) NY State Commission
on Judicial Conduct Dismissal of Complaint vs Judge Carolyn Demarest +
refusal
to recuse (Dismissal despite 40 pgs documented complaints) Published on blog
4) Recusal Papers
filed vs Judge Carolyn Demarest re
5) One proof of
lifetime advocacy - positive response letter from 1986 re improving public
school education (Begins-"If only your insights & enthusiasm could be bottled & shipped around the U.S.") Published on blog
6) Letter to World
Jewish Congress Foundation re petition to stop discrimination (to lead must set
better example here) Published
on blog
7) Barack Obama
letter to STGlascoff re my 2005 report, "Big Pic re Legal Reform, All Topics, butEsp.Family
Issues" (Obama agreed need for reforms,liked ideas) Published on blog 2/5/09
8) NYTimes Letter to
Editor re, "If This Isn't Slavery, What Is," Nicholas Kristof (re sex trafficking worldwide, but says U.S. only "sometimes," yet NYT reported 60,000/yr HERE in article couple yrs ago)
(Jan. 4, 2009), Jan. 8 Published
9) Respected
Advocate Calls for Legal System and Media Accountability. (web press release)
Published on blog
10) Press release -
11) Press release by Kipling's Who's Who for member Susan Titus Glascoff -legal and media accountability Nov.'08 Published 11/25/08
12) Letters from 7
others, plus mine, re NYTimes blatantly distorting facts in
13) NYCity Mayor
Bloomberg- Request to get 225 mayor coalition to discuss legal accountability,
July, 2008 (No answer ever received even though promised) Published
on blog
14) Commission on
Presidential Debates,
15) Impact on Taxpayers of Systematic Devastation
of Families, but EspeciallyWomen and Children, in
16) Honorable Ariel
Belen, Aug 8. 07 letter, 10/27 update, Taub case (Said could do nothing re complaints)
Published on blog
17) Professional of the Year in Advocacy (Currently Legal Accountability of all
types, but Especially Family Courts) Published on blog
18) Public Demand for Presidential Campaign Debates Regarding the Need for Judicial Accountability and Legal Ethics Enforcement (petition on web for 2004
presidential election to get public request to have legal accountability discussed-
(petition was aborted as website was broken
into & web sponsor refused to fix it)
(11 MILLION websites were asking for reforms!)
Published on blog
19) (My) Presentation to the NY Matrimonial Commission (speech by me to them in Feb.2005
Published
on blog
20) Dysfunctional families and dysfunctional family courts- We MUST interrelate
issues. (Gives many varied examples) Published
on blog

At the Matrimonial Part 5 J of the Supreme Court of the State of
P R E S E N T : HON. CAROLYN E. DEMAREST
Justice, Supreme Court
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CHANA TAUB,
Index No. 26534/07
Plaintiff,
-against- ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE
SIMON TAUB, Oral argument is requested
Defendant.
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Upon reading and filing the annexed affirmation of Chana Taub, affirmed the 26th day of September, 2008, upon the annexed affirmation of Chana Taub’s attorney, Neil Iovino, Esq., affirmed the 26th day of September, 2008, upon the annexed exhibits, and upon all of the pleadings and proceedings heretofore had herein,
Let Simon Taub, or his attorney, show cause before this Court at Part 5 J of the Supreme Court at
Page 1 (from total of 45,+ 2,16,17,23,24,33,34,38,40,45), then pg 1, 2 from 48 more
PAGE 2 day of October, 2008, at
1. Recusing the presiding justice in connection with the above captioned case; and
2. For such other and further relief as to the Court may seem just and appropriate.
SUFFICIENT CAUSE APPEARING THEREFOR, it is
ORDERED, that pending the hearing and determination of this Order to
Show Cause, this court shall not issue any further decisions, orders, or directives; and it is further
ORDERED, that service of a copy of this Order to Show Cause and
the papers upon which it is based upon Simon Taub’s attorneys, Mallow, Konstam & Hager, P.C., at 321 Broadway, New York, New York 10007, by overnight delivery, on or before the ______ day of _______________, 2008, shall be deemed good and sufficient service; and it is further
ORDERED, that opposition papers, if any, shall be served upon Chana Taub’s attorney and filed with the Court, so as to be received in hand by both the Court and Chana Taub’s counsel no later than
PAGE 16 it has been shown (again) that the court has been operating under a mistaken belief?
39. If this court is not biased and prejudiced against me, I would invite this court to search the record to find one criticism of Mr. Taub and his financial misconduct and violation of court orders.
40. This court has criticized and demeaned me for being on the “14th or 15th lawyer”. See Exhibit 1, page 28 lines 19 to 21. While this is false and not even close, Mr. Taub has had more attorneys than me in all these legal proceedings. In addition, Mr. Taub has been coming to almost each court appearance accompanied by two attorneys who are both partners of the same law firm. Yet, where is the court’s criticism of Mr. Taub? What is the source of payment of Mr. Taub’s legal fees on the one hand, yet inability to pay even $350.00 per week as court ordered on the other hand?
41. There have never been any issues of fact that this is a long term marriage, that I have never worked during the marriage, that Mr. Taub did not want me to work during the marriage, that he wanted me to raise our children and maintain a Jewish home, that I do not have a college degree, and that Mr. Taub earns well over $250,000.00 per year. Yet, and this court granted me only $350.00 per week maintenance for my support on the one hand, yet directed me to contribute $2,000.00 on a $5,000.00 mortgage. In effect, the court ordered me to do something that was impossible for me to do. However, the court does state in response to comments by Mr. Taub’s attorney and my not contributing
PAGE 17 $2,000.00 per month that the court could put me in jail. (See Exhibit 1 page 42, lines 11 to 13.)
42. How can there not be prejudice and bias, or the appearance of prejudice and bias, when a court orders a person to pay $2,000.00 per month toward a mortgage, yet receive only $1,400.00 per month in interim maintenance? As will be detailed below, this court acknowledged it did not know how I was going to get the money to make up the shortfall.
43. With only Mr. Taub collecting rent on his properties and my properties, yet only the properties in my name are in foreclosure, but none of Mr. Taub’s properties are in foreclosure, how can the court say there is no bias or prejudice when I am not enabled by the court to receive the rents and pay the expenses on the properties I own? The court never questions Mr. Taub about how he is able to keep his properties out of foreclosure but not the marital residence, for example, which is just in my name. (See Exhibit 1, page 54, lines 1 to 7; page 55, line 7 to page 56 line 5.)
44. The court ordered Mr. Taub to pay all of the monthly mortgage charges on the marital residence. (See Exhibit 1 page 57, lines 16 to 17. See also Exhibit 11—Order dated
45. I then brought a contempt proceeding because Mr. Taub was not paying the mortgage on the marital residence or the $350.00 per week interim maintenance. Rather than dealing with Mr. Taub’s violations of a court order, the court stated “I am not concerned about contempt. I am concerned about going forward.” (See Exhibit 1, page 33 line 25, to page 34, line 2.)
PAGE 23 59. On the one hand, the court does not look at my exhibits and records that prove the points I make and, on the other hand, accepts Mr. Taub’s mere say so. For instance, on
60. If there is no bias or prejudice, how can Mr. Taub have “resources” for some purposes, yet not have “money” for other purposes?
61. Again, the court criticizes only me and states that “Mrs. Taub helped herself to an awful lot of money, which increased the amount of payments due on this [the marital residence]”. See Exhibit 13, page 49, line 11 to page 50 line 8. The court has no interest in determining any financial fault on the part of Mr. Taub such as Mr. Taub’s failure to pay only $350.00 per week for many months, his removal of even larger funds of money ($300,000.00 cash from a marital safe), and Mr. Taub’s interim collecting of rents on his and my real estate properties while not paying the expenses on my properties, which has resulted in PAGE 24 my properties going into foreclosure, but his properties remaining viable money makers.
62. If there is no bias or prejudice, why has this court refused to appoint a receiver on all properties as opposed to allowing Mr. Taub to manage his and mismanage my properties?
63. How can there not be bias or prejudice when this court continually refuses to get to the bottom of these issues, but at every turn, is quick to criticize or punish me, yet dismiss or defer Mr. Taub’s financial fault?
64. In a proceeding before this court on April 4, 2008, when it was pointed out that Mr. Taub listed in his statement of net worth only four real estate properties in his name, my attorney pointed out that Mr. Taub listed as liabilities other even more significant real estate properties, but failed to note them as assets. (See Exhibit 14, page 16, line 10 to page 18 line 3) Yet the court never criticizes Mr. Taub for this obvious attempt at concealing his interest in certain assets.
65. During these same proceedings On
66. Real estate located at
PAGE 33 socks every day, that Mr. Taub threatened to chop my hands off, that most of the time I was quiet and afraid to answer or question Mr. Taub, that I was so afraid to be with Mr. Taub that I slept in our daughter’s room. Alexander further testified that if I ever objected to Mr. Taub’s conduct, Mr. Taub would behave even more violently, but that he never saw me scream at Mr. Taub. Alexander even testified he was afraid of his father. See Exhibit 18, transcripts of proceedings on March 19th, 20th, and 21st, 2007.
91. Our daughter, Cheryl Taub, also testified regarding what she observed. She testified that she loves her father but not what he’s doing to me. See Exhibit 18, page 37. She also testified that especially the last two years, Mr. Taub would come home every day and become enraged at me and scream at me for no reason, and if I were not home the minute he arrived, he would “just fly into a rage and start screaming and cursing her,” that she was scared of her father, that he broke off a door handle to our daughter’s room when I had sought refuge in my daughter’s room and that literally for several hours he was screaming at me, that if I tried to defend myself, Mr. Taub would get “more mad and start yelling more and throwing things around more”, he never gave me any credit for working so hard to prepare for Shabbat and the 20 to 30 guests he invited each week, that he would always tear up my mail, that I was assaulted by Mr. Taub who put his hands around my neck, threw a TV at me, and so on. See Exhibit 18.
PAGE 34 92. She also testified she was afraid of her father who told Cheryl on one occasion he “would have no problem getting rid of my mother”, and on another occasion that he could easily stage a car accident.
93. Nechama Markovics, my daughter, also testified regarding Mr. Taub’s abuse. Without repeating what our other children observed, she testified she observed Mr. Taub always treating me “like a slave”, that I did not defend myself because “She was too afraid of being punished”, that there was a safe in the house where large sums of cash were held, and that “My mother was never permitted to take any money out of that without permission, though she was forced to open it up and allow him to take out and remove large sum,” that during one of Mr. Taub’s fits of rage and anger, “He took apart the whole kitchen. Everything that was there, he threw it out. He went from one end to the other.” See Exhibit 18.
94. Dr Evan Stark, a renowned expert on battered spouse syndrome and domestic violence and abuse, was only allowed to testify generally about battered spouse syndrome. Although Dr. Stark had examined and interviewed me for many hours, Dr. Stark the court did not allow him to testify as to whether, in his opinion, I met the criteria of a battered woman. If he had been allowed to testify, he would have testified that I was a battered woman, and that I had experienced the four dimensions of coercive control (violence, intimidation, isolation and control) and that this was all consistent with the pattern of everything known to be typical in these cases from the literature and clinical experience (Exhibit 29). Certainly, his testimony would have added to the
(STGlascoff copying end of this paragraph which is on pg 35)- “credibility of my claims that I have been abused throughout the marriage. Nevertheless, because of the court’s bias and prejudice against me, the court accepted Mr. Taub’s claims that this expert should not be allowed to testify and offer an opinion in this case.”
PAGE 38 follows
103. The court repeatedly said I was not to be trusted with managing my own properties (Exhibit 16, page 62, lines 3-25 & page 63, lines 1-5). In fact, on the official nyc.gov. website under building violations, Mr. Taub is listed as having 103 violations on his properties, most not corrected. Unpaid fines show over $50,000 outstanding, and violations listed include fire violations, illegal apts. etc… For buildings listed in my name for when I was managing them before filing for divorce in June 2005, there were listed only 2, no fines, and I corrected my violations quickly. (See Exhibit 33 for nyc.gov violation printouts.)
104. Exhibit #29, note that Dr. Evan Stark sent Susan Titus Glascoff his summary of his interview with me. He sent his observations to her since she has attended most of the hearings, starting with
105. I am attaching herewith as Exhibit 34 my documentary – mostly verbatim quotes from this court, whose bias and prejudice is clearly evident at each of my appearances with this court for the past two years.
SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF
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CHANA TAUB,
Index No. 26534/07
Plaintiff,
-against- Attorney’s Affirmation
SIMON TAUB,
Defendant.
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Neil Iovino, being an attorney duly admitted to practice law before the courts of the State of
1. I am Chana Taub’s attorney in the above entitled actions and submit this affirmation in support of the relief requested by Chana Taub in the annexed Order to Show Cause.
2. This motion is not precluded by the existing bankruptcy stay that exists pursuant to the Plaintiff’s bankruptcy case under case number 08-44210. The primary purpose of the bankruptcy stay is to put the Debtor and the Debtor’s property under the protection of the Bankruptcy Court. See Section 362 of the Bankruptcy Code. That this stay involves property of the estate is also evidenced by the Bankruptcy Abuse and Consumer Protection Act of 2005 which
(AGAIN STG copying top next pg -41) “expanded scope of marital exceptions to Automatic Stay.. Included.. maintenance…. Recusal not involve debtor property.”
SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF
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CHANA TAUB,
Index No. 26534/07
Plaintiff,
-against- Attorney’s Affirmation
SIMON TAUB,
Defendant.
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Neil Iovino, being an attorney duly admitted to practice law before the courts of the State of
1. I am Chana Taub’s attorney in the above entitled actions and submit this affirmation in support of the relief requested by Chana Taub in the annexed Order to Show Cause.
2. This motion is not precluded by the existing bankruptcy stay that exists pursuant to the Plaintiff’s bankruptcy case under case number 08-44210. The primary purpose of the bankruptcy stay is to put the Debtor and the Debtor’s property under the protection of the Bankruptcy Court. See Section 362 of the Bankruptcy Code. That this stay involves property of the estate is also evidenced by the Bankruptcy Abuse and Consumer Protection Act of 2005 which
(AGAIN STG copied top next pg- 41) “expanded scope of marital exceptions to Automatic Stay...Exceptions..maintenance.. Recusal not involve debtor property.”
SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF
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CHANA TAUB,
Index No. 26534/07
Plaintiff,
-against- Attorney’s Affirmation
SIMON TAUB,
Defendant.
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Neil Iovino, being an attorney duly admitted to practice law before the courts of the State of
1. I am Chana Taub’s attorney in the above entitled actions and submit this affirmation in support of the relief requested by Chana Taub in the annexed Order to Show Cause.
2. This motion is not precluded by the existing bankruptcy stay that exists pursuant to the Plaintiff’s bankruptcy case under case number 08-44210. The primary purpose of the bankruptcy stay is to put the Debtor and the Debtor’s property under the protection of the Bankruptcy Court. See Section 362 of the Bankruptcy Code. That this stay involves property of the estate is also evidenced by the Bankruptcy Abuse and Consumer Protection Act of 2005 which
(AGAIN STG copying top next pg- 41) “expanded scope of marital exceptions to Automatic Stay...Included...maintenance...Recusal not involve Debtor property.”
Recusal Motion Exhibits PAGE 45
(STGlascoff- note there were 48 more pages submitted with above by Chana Taub, including lots documentation- BELOW is just opening summary pg + next pg which goes onto 3rd pg since different size print in originals)
JUDGE DEMAREST SHOULD BE RECUSED BECAUSE OF:
1. BIASED STATEMENTS, BIASED DECISIONS, BIASED ORDERS
2. ABUSE OF DISCRETION & ABUSE OF JUDICIAL POWERS
(A) Since first taking the case, July 2006, refused to ENFORCE HER OWN OR Chana’s lawyer’s requests for discovery FOR TWO YEARS (still not done)!
(
Refused to order that Simon Taub give an accounting for the over $200,000.00 income he collects and pockets EACH AND EVERY MONTH from his large properties, in addition to Chana’s two small properties, while completely depriving Chana of any rental income. Denied all Chana’s motions and pleadings for an accounting - at least of rents stolen from her own properties.
(C) Refused to order/enforce child support or pendente lite, no “status quo.”
(D) Denied every single one of Chana Taub’s motions
(E) Refused to order legal fees.
(F) Distorting & Obstructing the truth, in order to assist Simon against Chana.
(G) Deliberate “ignorance” of the law, so as to deprive Chana.
(H) Refused to address prejudice against Chana when Simon refused “Get”
(I) Judge Demarest ordered Simon to pay marital mortgage several times, TWICE Chana filed Contempt Motions when Simon violated her orders, TWICE Judge Demarest vacated her own orders, to assist Simon in WASTING the marital assets.
(J) Made improper and unreasonable orders against Chana.
(K) Continuous inflammatory, BIASED statements against Chana
(L) ADVOCATING AND/OR ORDERING MARITAL ASSETS TO BE WASTED AND LOST.
(M) SIGNED INAPPROPRIATE AND POSSIBLY ILLEGAL RESTRAINING ORDER, PRECLUDING CHANA FROM GOING TO FAMILY COURT (
Judge Demarest supported, condoned, endorsed and awarded all of Simon Taub’s flagrantly wrong and unethical actions throughout the legal proceedings which have led to absurd and harsh orders against Chana Taub and enormous legal fees. Chana Taub is petrified to step into Judge Demarest’s Court, knowing that she will not be given a fair determination before her, and even worse – will be target of some new, bizarre and abusive Order endangering her and her children’s lives.
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FROM THE TRANSCRIPT OF
1) P. 6, Lines 2-21: ATTY. ROSENTHAL: “On the calendar for today, it was my understanding, was the issue of spousal support and child support. That motion has been kicking around. This case is about 14 months old, and to date there has been no decision on the issue of spousal and child support and it’s one of tremendous importance.”
THE COURT: “Before we get any further than this, one of the issues that I intend to address and this is… we are going to find out whether there’s any reason to be addressing any of this….. And the motions you referred to, some of them were made long before I got the case and I previously indicated that I felt that, at least as to some of these motions, they should probably be deemed dismissed and started again because I have no prior knowledge of any of the matters that took place in the courtroom. So, I’m not going to try to resurrect them.”
(If one spouse has no money, shouldn’t pendente lite and child support be the first important issue to address? Judge Demarest always found ways to refuse support by diverting from the subject (above) and by denying outright.)
P.6, Lines 19-20, Judge claims to have no “prior knowledge” of Chana’s motions pleading for support, but immediately following that, P.7, Lines 2-14, she has full knowledge of Simon’s motions!)
2) P. 7, Lines 2-25: THE COURT: “I would note that there’s a motion to punish for contempt that is against your client (Chana) for failure to account for certain property that was removed from the marital home by her, prior to my ever getting this case.” “And while I find no merit at this time in the motion to punish for contempt, because she has finally complied.”
(At the same time, Judge Demarest has “no prior knowledge” of Chana’s motion that Simon account for his millions. Judge does not threaten Simon to “punish for contempt” even though he is in contempt, he never gave any accounting.)
ATTY.. ROSENTHAL: “This is a Court of equity. We have here a money spouse to my right and we have a non-money spouse here…”

As handwriting on letter shows, I sent out 60 page highly researched report to 3 pages of recipients nationwide re ideas to improve public school education. One of the items I remain firmly committed to is limiting class size for K-3 to 15- it would pay for itself ! ! It would enable teachers to better insure a positive first impression of school via more individual attention, hence higher success rates learning the crucial basics of the 3 R's. Less remediation would be needed later which is expensive, and there would be less class disruption not only K-3, but thereafter since students who feel successful are more likely to pay attention, helping not only them but rest of the class. Disruption causes more need for teaching time, which also translates into money. Etc. Positive first impressions affect almost everyone positively, no matter the topic! I also discussed pay incentives for excellence in teaching, etc. I taught high school math in the early 1970s and a few years later was elected as a school board member elsewhere.
My mother taught emotionally disturbed children for many years and used to say she could always tell the children of divorce without being told who they were! An article in the 1993 "Reader's Digest" reported from a study that indicated children of divorce were far more likely to need remediation, be disruptive, and drop out compared to the rest of the population. Much has been written about this, yet in "Leave No Child Behind" discussions, little if anything is mentioned about their specific needs though they surely form a sizeable per cent of our population.
Please read the other blog entries to realize the connection to legal accountability. As nearly all my advocacy below mentions, more needs to be done K-12 re incorporating teaching conflict management and the challenges of good partnering and parenting- that would help children not only to be more receptive to learning, but enable them to become better business and family partners and parents. However, divorce can never be eliminated, hence it is imperative that courts operate FAR more fairly to limit the damage! Add to that the legal stranglehold on schools in terms of rules and bureaucracy due to fear of suit. Monkey bars, seesaws, and often even slides have been eliminated because multimillion dollar suits have been won against schools when a child gets injured, regardless of fault. In the 2009 book (easy read and only about 210 pages) by Philip K. Howard, a lawyer, "Life Without Lawyers," with subtitle,"Liberating Americans From Too Much Law," the author notes that discipline in schools has been bureaucratized. Mr. Howard says, "NYC requires over 60 steps and legal considerations to suspend a student for 5 days....A 2007 California study on teacher retention, trying to understand why 18,000 teachers quite each year, found that bureaucracy was the leading factor....In every successful school, teachers and principals feel free to act their best judgment. Values don't come to life without the freedom to assert them. Enthusiasm energizes the entire culture, but there's no enthusiasm without spontaneity and originality." Etc!
World Jewish Congress Foundation 203-454-3193 (1783f)
501
Executive Director Herbert Juh:
I received your plea for a signature & funding to protect Jews from renewed onslaught of anti-Semitism. Discrimination must be stopped, but I feel more focus has to be right here because no one can lead without setting a good example. We keep touting democracy, yet we’re witnessing severe turmoil because we have too few checks and balances re appropriate pay, adequate healthcare, and among other items a legal system that has become primarily about who can win and not justice. These imbalances affect mothers & children more harshly. I would like you to address the widespread mistreatment of Hasidic Jewish women, especially those divorced or seeking to be. In my opinion the courts are being influenced to insure most receive highly inequitable settlements & some inappropriate loss of custody.
You have probably heard about the case of Chana Taub, a gentle Hasidic Jewish mother in Brooklyn, who has been trying to get a divorce for over 3 ½ years from Simon Taub, a leader in his religious sect, & yet about whom credible evidence exists that he has been abusive to his family in numerous heinous ways for years. I have been attending the case for 2 yrs at the request of the National Coalition for Family Justice (NCFJ) – we only attend when unfair practices are suspected. Four children testified at the trial about his abuse. A renowned expert witness wasn’t allowed to testify that from 7 hrs of interviews he determined that Chana exhibits all the classic symptoms of abuse. There is an ongoing pathetic sexual libel suit re a stepdaughter. Simon simply took custody of their youngest son. He was arrested for prostitution. He had 3 federal fraud convictions in 1998-9. Judge Carolyn Demarest has refused to recuse even though she has hardly enforced any of her own orders such as maintenance, getting the home out of foreclosure, allowing Chana to collect rent from her own properties, ETC., BUT she has noted his wealth! Chana is now in bankruptcy court where good judge has noted Simon is worth at least $41M! This makes a mockery of our system & costs all taxpayers. A retired NYC judge prepared an estimate that it costs $4,500 to operate one courtROOM for ONE day.
Chana asked Atty. Nat Lewin who has worked in civil rights to help, but he refused.
NCFJ has asked administrative judges to intervene or change venue- refused. Legal bills $3M to date! Many media persist presenting case as “he said, she said,” despite credible data to the contrary. NYTimes interviewed Chana, her twin sister –who attends everything- & me for 7 hours at my request. NYT assured me they'd be fair, but their Oct. 5 article in quarterly real estate Key Magazine was very misleading (see comments of others on my blog- www.advocateforlegalaccountability.com, also read my web press release, “Respected Advocate Calls for Legal System and Media Accountability,”which mentions this case as well as a general plea for legal & media accountability, no matter the topic, as it is part of our entire financial crisis since the legal system increasingly controls every aspect of our society, including with excessively high bills). The NYT mentioned the sexual libel suit, but with no details so as to mislead- and that’s a real estate issue- right? They also gave no credentials for me, not even mentioning I was requested to attend by the NCFJ & had never met the Taubs before. I met with a Rabbi & several Hasidic divorced or divorcing women who all lament that they rarely get equity & often lose their kids.
What is going on? I have 3 sons, 2 stepsons, & have been
remarried 16 years, so I’m surely not anti male, just pro-human! The
[ I’m not donating, but ask you
to pick some matching # in my name- it costs about $100 every time I go to
Most sincerely & respectfully, Susan Titus Glascoff, 4 Who’s Whos, Exec. Dir. Nat’l Advisory Bd. to NCFJ, Masters- Health Advocacy & Math, 40 yrs public advocacy
NYT letter re, If This Isn’t Slavery, What Is, by Nicholas Kristof
Kristof is to be commended for his compassionate efforts to help stop sex trafficking.
However, I believe why his and other efforts don’t make more
progress is because we don’t set a good enough example. Even he downplays our own culpability by
noting that “forced prostitution is remarkably similar from
In somewhat the same timeframe the video “Breaking the
Silence,” about abusive custody here was aired by PBS across the country,
though not nearly widely enough, plus there was too little or innocuous
advertising, and some airings were after
OUR KIDS KANT WAIT SO NEITHER CAN WE!
Susan Titus Glascoff, 4 Who’s Whos, Masters- Health Advocacy and Math, Exec. Dir. of Advisory Bd. to Nat’l Coalition for Justice, lifetime assorted advocacy,3 sons, 2 stepsons, 5 grandchildren, (1st married to high-powered attorney for 23 years)
203-454-3193,
PS- Meant to get this to you a couple days ago, but I had informed you earlier re above conference.
I have reported elsewhere that I received a personal letter,
I also included several statements from an Expose- “The Failure of Family Courts to Protect Children from Abuse in Custody Disputes” by a very high-powered group. It stated that it is a resource book for lawmakers, judges, attorneys, and mental health professionals. It quoted Gloria Steinem exhorting readers to “get angry and act vs the courts treating children as commodities.” It quoted Alan Rosenfeld, Esq.- “ Some analysts have suggested that if we intended to create a system that would guarantee that the smallest number of sexually abused children would be protected – that system would look very much like our current family court system.” Yet you in your Oct. 5, 2008 Key Magazine article, supposedly focusing on real estate, implied Simon Taub and his stepdaughter, Chana Taub’s daughter from first marriage, were justified in suing Chana for sexual libel re Simon’s allegedly sleeping with this stepdaughter. You knew greater detail, and this just added to the abuse, as did the comment that the youngest son just decided to go live with the father. You knew the father simply took him. You knew, too, that renowned expert witness, Dr. Evan Stark, had his testimony barred from the jury hearing it by Judge Carolyn Demarest. Dr. Stark testified that after 7 hours of interview, he concluded Chana exhibited all the four major parameters of an abuse.
I suspect you
are never going to correct the misrepresentations in the
How about a more level playing field re your reporting on family issues? You never seem to write about the many more women who often find themselves totally destitute while still at home with dependent children and who have gotten very inequitable settlements and/or been subject to physical violence here, unless it is a sensational case. Keep in mind that the U.S. census stats note that the average woman’s lifestyle drops 45% after divorce, and the men’s organizations above note that treating domestic violence issues (inequitable finance is included in the DV category) as harming both sexes equally hinders finding solutions. This all has a very negative impact on kids, boys and girls, and lots of research shows such kids have far higher rates of growing up to be dysfunctional adults, so the cycle goes on and on & costs society plenty, including financially. It is part of our financial crisis.
Comments re a few other articles-
1) 12/31/08 Washington Post- “The Big Bailout Lessons,” “one of the major lessons of the year is that unregulated and underregulated capitalism ends up confronting democratic governments with a subprime choice: either let a major institution go down & watch as chaos follows or funnel gobs of the public’s money into such institutions to avoid Lehman-like chaos.” Re ANY big ticket item, unregulated and underregulated capitalism doesn’t work. It surely doesn’t work with our legal system and healthcare.
2) 1/2/09
South Florida Sun-Sentinel.com- “Put an End to lawsuit Abuse,” noted that
Florida has been “classified as the #2 judicial hellhole in the country and is
recognized nationally as a place you wouldn’t want to do business…… more than1
in 3 small businesses say lawsuit abuse has raised their costs, made products
more expensive, or forced them to restrict, reduce or change their product and
service offerings….. 1 in 10 have had to consider shutting down their business
due to the threat of a lawsuit……The current legal climate is driving up
healthcare costs and driving doctors out of state.” All I can say is those stats are by no means confined to
3)
4)
HOW, I ask, can any legal area
be allowed to get so bad as to be classified as a judicial hellhole, while
essentially no credible efforts are made to correct it? One prime ex. where many know the court
system remains mired in corruption is in
5)
6)
7) I
attended a local official (part of nat’l
effort) gathering in Dec. to discuss ideas we want Obama to address. The hostess was a lawyer who had held a
prominent legal gov’t job in
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Keep in mind, too, that anyone ever receiving a legal bill knows it is impossible to verify how many minutes were spent on research, on phone calls, on travel, etc., and with little incentive to finish quickly, such a system is ripe for abuse.
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Everything is interrelated. Our Kids Kant Wait, So Neither Can We!